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For Guys: See What You Must Avoid While Approaching A Lady

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For Guys: See What You Must avoid While Approaching a Lady.

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Dear guys this article was specially prepared for you with a lot of love, and on behalf of the ladies, I’m going to share with you something you most avoid while approaching a lady.

It has been said that the best relationships start with friendship, but a lot of guys don’t really understand that statement.

I don’t know if it’s just me but I find it very annoying, when a guy approaches me for the first time with this”can we be friends”

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for instance”hi my name is Micheal can we be friends?”

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oh my goodness that’s a total turn off, at that point I’m just like okay …..and everything becomes awkward because at this point I already low key know where this is heading to.

I mean I know it has to starts from somewhere but it doesn’t mean you should ask in that manner.

For me, it’s a turn-off. I would lose interest before it even starts.

The best approach is don’t ask the question. You can easily have a mutual conversation with that person that leads to friendship without you doing much.

for instance, you can introduce yourself and also get to know the other person by name.

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Then you can go ahead and skim your way to having her number, depending on when, where and how you met the person.

For example, this was how my boyfriend approached me.

(clears throat)

This was how I met my boyfriend, it was a beautiful evening and I was assisting my sister at her provision store. I can’t remember everything in detail but I sure remember I was reading a book, he approached me, introduced himself and I did the same, he asked about the book I was reading.

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I told him I was preparing for an exam and he was like well he’s familiar with the course, and he also has some past questions so I SHOULD GIVE HIM MY NUMBER SO HE CAN SEND A SOFT COPY TO ME ON WHATASSP.(pause)

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Get the gist on how he got my phone number, but assuming after introduction the next thing he said was “can we be friends, I would like to know you better blah blah shii… I don’t think I would have given him my number.

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So basically I want guys to stop asking a girl they meet for the first time this question”can we be friends?”… it sounds awkward and for some girls, it’s a total turn off because automatically the brain starts saying” he wants to ask you out “.

Which isn’t very good for a start, it’s better to just go with a simple flow and allow friendship mutually walk in.

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