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8 Kinds of Women That Men Shouldn’t Marry



8 Kinds of Women That Men Shouldn’t Marry

In dating, a lot of things go. Trials and errors, overlooking of unsavoury characters in your partner and many other things. But when it comes to marriage, it is a different ball game entirely.
As serious a commitment as marriage is, some people still ignore the red flags and stay blinded by lust. For you to really find happiness in life you need to marry the best match for you. This should be a woman who will always “have your back” and that you can count on in good times and in bad.

With that in mind, now here are the 8 kinds of women that men shouldn’t marry:

1. The BitterLeaf Woman:

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You know that kind of woman that always seems to be angry at the menfolk all the time? That kind that no matter what you do, no matter how you go out of your way for them, you’ll always be one of the ‘doomed gender of men?’
Perhaps she has had her heart broken one too many times, but this woman is always bashing on men and talking about how they are no-good or useless. A man should never try to settle down with someone so bitter as it is guaranteed that when the opportunity arises, she would hurl hurtful insults and intense, hateful words your way due to all her unresolved anger.

2. The Selfish Woman:

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If you want a happy home and a partner that wants your happiness as well as hers, then you should steer clear of the selfish woman. A woman who is determined to make sure she always comes first would not be able to build a cheerful and loving home with you. Stay woke and be on the lookout for this attribute.

3. The Attention Seeker/ Needy one:

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While some women naturally like attention, when it becomes an obsession, then it is not a good idea. A good husband makes sure he has time for his wife, but this cannot happen 100percent of the time so a good wife should understand that.
The needy woman is a bottomless well of needs. Clingy, clingy, clingy. You must constantly reassure her of your love, and that everything in the relationship is okay. She wanted to get married from date three and believes you are her “soulmate.” If you call and don’t answer or respond to texts instantly, she is in a panic. Forget about any “boy’s night out.” She will sulk and cry. Your phone will be blowing up all evening. There is no way for you ever to make this person feel secure and you may die trying to.

4. The Disrespectful Woman:

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This is so crucial, most especially in our part of the world (Africa). If she seems to always be disrespectful and rude (even if it is to people she considers beneath her standards) then you need to think twice about marrying her. Respect for a fellow human being is a very important attribute in who we choose to spend the rest of our lives with so it is definitely not something that should be taken lightly.

5. The psycho:

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These women are often beautiful. Sometimes supermodel gorgeous and you are talking to yourself in the mirror that she is dating you! You are easily blinded by her beauty, though. She has anger outbursts, unpredictable moods, one minute wants a hug and the next is biting your head off. While you may recommend to her that she reads control your anger before it controls you  , She may have an actual personality disorder and zero knowledge about her behavior. She may even say she’s suffering from PTSD but do not buy that excuse! You must dump Ms. Crazy and change your number. Better yet, go into the witness protection program for a few months, as you are likely to be stalked.

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6. The control freak:

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She’s domineering and bossy, makes all the decisions and beats you down when you try to assert yourself. Also, she decides where you go on dates and who you go with. She may be isolating you from your regular friends. You are starting to become her lap dog. You may even begin to wonder if it matters that you exist in the relationship, as you have no voice. Your friends are definitely noticing. They are losing respect for you and see you as spineless. It is time to take back your self-respect and leave this woman!

7. Damsel in Distress:

As the name implies, she’s making you feel like the novel superheroes and you’re always saving her. I’m sorry o, low-budget Clark Kent.
You must ask yourself, why is she always having problems? Why is there always something bad happening to her? She has a horrible ex-boyfriend, a low paying job, and her family are having financial issues for the tenth time? You feel pity for her, and this gives you heartache. She is incapable of pulling herself up by herself. Just remember, if you rescue a damsel in distress, you end up with nothing but a distressed damsel. Ask yourself what will happen if you needed to count on her too. You should not have to rescue a person time and time again. The only thing you should be rescuing is a damn pet for God’s sake!


8. The Flirty Woman:

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Need I say more? Are you attracted to that woman that always seems to flirt with one person or another? She flirts like a butterfly from one man to another and makes all men feel like she is interested in them. Well, beware, because a habit like that might be hard to break after marriage and you would not want to start hearing that your wife has had flirty conversations with all the men in the neighbourhood.


If you are dating any of these 8 types of women that men shouldn’t marry, it is crucial that you consider the impact this person is having on your life. These types can be disastrous for your well-being and happiness. Would you want this woman raising your children? Chances are, your gut is telling you to run, but you are getting something out of the relationship that makes this difficult. Whatever it is you’re getting does not worth your mental health and well-being. You must move on from women like this and find a healthy, balanced partnership for life.

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