How to know he misses you is a question that normally pops up in your mind no matter how long y’all have been together.
Every single one of us would love to know that our partner misses us when we’re not around. There’s just one challenge. It’s not so much in the nature of us guys to admit that we feel this type of way. Yea, it kind of makes us feel vulnerable. So, rather than relying on him to spell it all out for you, it might be better you look out for signs that his mind and thoughts have been overtaken by you.
Listed below are some tips on how to know he misses you
1. HE CAN’T STOP TEXTING
This one is a no brainer. A guy who misses you cannot stay without communicating with you. He is always going to be anxious to text you to share all of the important moments of his day. Honestly, even some not so important parts too but you know what, this is way of saying he wishes you’re around him. Trust me, a guy who simply texts “I miss you” but not much else may not even mean it, but the frequency of his texts when you’re apart says it all.
2. HE NEVER WANTS TO GET OFF THE PHONE.
There’s something about calling that always sends a clearer message than texting, right? Once you notice his reluctance to hang up, or he keeps prolonging the discuss, you should know better. He clearly misses you.
3. HE’S ON EVERY OF YOUR POSTS ON SOCIAL MEDIA.
Quite easily mistaken for stalking, sometimes a guy who genuinely misses you would not mind to ‘stalk’. He’ll be all up in your comments section, liking non-stop and digging up your stuff that were posted way back. While I understand how weird and overwhelming this can make you feel, just note that a guy who misses you just wants to stay connected to you any way he can. Stalking you on social media is just one method of doing that.
4. HE’S MAKING PLANS TO MEET.
When a guy seriously misses you, his mind is already fixated on that particular moment he gets to set his eyes on you next. As a matter of fact, he’ll be making obvious plans to get to see you soon enough. I mean, any guy can say he can’t wait to see you, right?
5. HE BRINGS UP THE PAST.
When a guy is away from someone he cares deeply about, he tends to hang on to beautiful memories you guys made in the past. When you talk to him, does he bring up the good times you’ve had together? If he does, he most definitely misses you. And the only way he’s making do with the fact that he can’t see you right now is by clinging to the old memories y’all made together.
6. DRUNK TEXTS/CALLS FROM HIM.
Like i said earlier, guys prefer to leave clues rather than outrightly admit they are missing you. However, I believe we all know that drinking tends to lower our inhibitions and lets the truth out a little more. If he has a couple of drinks, he may not be able to refrain himself from texting or calling.
7. JEALOUSY OVERRIDE.
Jealousy is never a good look on anyone, but a guy who genuinely misses you can lose his calm a little bit. For what it’s worth, I’ve noticed similar behavior from some of you ladies out there. When you can’t be around a person you care about, it’s hard not to feel jealous of the people who are around that person. In that sense, missing you can come across as jealousy. Now, here’s the deal. If your guy never exhibited the jealous attitude while you were around each other, then the sudden change doesn’t really count as jealousy. If it’s come out of the blue, he plainly misses you and that’s just what’s up.
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